By D8 Knighter
How to Approach Women.
Being confident and courageous enough to talk to strangers and new people is an uphill task for many of us. It becomes more challenging when the stranger you want to talk to is a cute girl who fantasizes about starting a conversation with hopes of pairing a date. Luckily though, there are several ways you can stand out, and significantly increase your chances of making a great impression and reduce your fear of being rejected.
Here are five crucial steps to help you approach a cute girl and make a great impression.
Check the signals.
Before you begin worrying about what you should say to her, you need to have a clear understanding of when to approach them. The timing makes the difference between being rejected and being offered a date. Here are the times you should come and time you should not :
- Make your approach when she is sitting /standing and looks relaxed. When girls or people are generally in a positive mood and show open language, they are likely to have a conversation.
- Make your approach if she has been sending many glances or smiles at you. It means she is very interested in waiting for you to start the conversation.
- Never approach her when she is upset or when having a bad day. Expect a negative response from a stranger.
- Never approach her when she is busy or preoccupied. Interrupting her can be interpreted as being rude, and that is not a good first impression.
- Create an instant connection with your eyes.
Once you approach a cute girl, make eye contact. It is crucial because it shows you are confident and creates a sense of closeness.
Making eye contact with someone, especially a girl, leads to the production of oxytocin. It is commonly known as the cuddle hormone. Despite the amount generated from eye contact being minimal, it will help you create a strong feeling of closeness. It does help you establish a sense of trust. Once trust is created, she will be more willing to have a conversation with you.
Approach from the side.
Women are often scared and nervous when surrounded by strangers. Approaching her from the front or behind can be considered intimidating because of the fear of being attacked. The best way to do it is to come them by the side. By doing so, you give them enough time to prepare your presence, at the same time approaching them from the side; they are likely to see you.
Prove you are worth their time.
Research has shown that people, especially the female gender, are judgmental and hesitant when meeting strangers. Girls usually are worried about being around girls they have never met before. They will first internalize three questions before deciding whether they will keep talking to you. The questions are ;
- What does this guy want from me?
- Can I trust this guy?
- Is he worth my time?
The faster you help the girls answer these questions, the faster she will become comfortable with you. They will then be more willing to engage in a conversation with you. The following are the best conversation starters that will help her understand you better.
- Seek advice - where can you recommend to eat near here? Do you love watching movies? It is the best way to determine if you share a shared mutual interest.
- Act playful - for example, if you are at a coffee shop, " l have a significant emergency ( smile), I can't decide whether to take Americano or coffee laite. This will likely start your discussion, discussing your favorite drinks with her.
- Request them for a favor, hey can you assist me with your cable for a second?
- Stand out but don't overdo. Avoid topics that will bring controversies, like religion and politics. Try safe topics like movies, music, food, and anything that you are both comfortable discussing.
Portray the harmless character.
Women can naturally read a man's body language from the first time you approach them; they internalize and analyze how your body moves. Every move you make is noted, then they decide how they feel about you. Always use friendly body language to succeed in this game m
